Sunday, March 13, 2011

Lookout weekend cause..there it went.

This weekend started off great.  Friday I was handed something "special".  Just gonna wait to see what happens next.  I also was notified by a grant that I applied to um... years ago and that were suppose to be paying for my college loans years..ago..... well now they are playing catch up... So they're gonna be paying them soon. Yay... And well it was Friday.. Can get any better than that!

Saturday was our full day.  Its when we start folding the laundry type day, even though we started washing on Thursday but don't really finish till Sunday and then really don't finish at all because there is still a basket left to put away... Yeah it was that kind of day.  It started with a Baseball game and ended with a day at the mall.  I swear that trip to the mall could motivate me to write what not to do when you go to the mall.  But then again what worked for me one day definitely didn't work for me yesterday..

Lets just begin with our dinner date.  Last time we went to the mall we were able to go out to eat at Fresh Choice (all you can eat salad/pasta place).  Last time it went great. Kids did great. We did great. It was awesome.  We ate. They ate. We sat. They sat. We talked. they Talked. We laughed.. well you get the picture.  This time around it wasn't so much what we expected.  It was disaster zone.  First we had to move from our original spot were we sat because for some reason I thought it would work to sit in a small corner area were we were kind of squished but I figured it was a corner area and the kids couldn't go everywhere.. ...boy  I was wrong.  
Then we sat Ama by me and Santi next to Javi.  Gave her her plate with food.  Little did I know she was in the mood to not want anything from her plate and want to only eat the ranch dressing that I had in a small tray.  She was in the mood to grab whatever was in sight to dip, suck out the ranch and spit it back out.  I didn't see the beginning when she started because I went to go get a fork... but when I came back I saw a table well.. a table full of ranch and other things.  
I wish I could have taken my camera just to show the aftermath of what a little girl could do.  And that was still with Javi and the other kids there.  Santi is also at a stage were he likes to feed himself.  He starts to growl if we try to give him his food.  He likes his independence.  So we gave him some pasta, some bread, some eggs, some pizza a little of everything.  And we moved him around because he wanted a little from everyone's plate.  So he rolled in his high chair.

  And when we looked down when we were done with our food.  All we could do was apologize to the hostess.  Javi even asked her if we could use a broom or small vacuum to clean it up.  It was um... pretty bad. Leaving the restaurant was a moment where I wish I could've had my camera.  Just to take a picture of what we created.  Art of food on the floor. 

Sunday was short and sweet.  I say short because we lost an hour and it seemed to go by too quick.  And it started with Ama getting into our piles of laundry that we so nicely put in order.  She decided that it was to neat and that there wasn't enough chaos in the house.  So here we go..



 
 And Santiago got a haircut.. Well really my mom held him and I did a quick uneven cut.  But you cant notice it because uneven bangs are totally in.

And the kids played a bit outside Sunday afternoon.

 And while they played I mastered the technique of taking pictures while trying to solve problems with my kids.  Lala and Papos were arguing.. and I was listening and taking pictures.  They are at an age were they are annoying eachother more and more.

(Bet you can tell who was being the instigator... hint..name rhymes with Cha Cha)

 And Ama had a walk around the compound .. and enjoyed looking at everything.

 And I don't think I ever told you about my talented mama..Well we are very lucky cause my mama is the best.  She made us some quilts that we cherish so much.  Here is Ama looking at one of her quilts she made. (Gonna take pictures of the one she made for us.  Its in special colors that Javi loves.. Purple and gold.. loving it).



And after her walk around the compound she just stood there.. and enjoyed the peaceful wind in her face.  She didn't say a word, she didn't look at me, she just stood there with a sweet peaceful look in her face.
And the weekend.. came and... went..





The Paper Mama 




The Paper Mama


Wednesday, March 9, 2011

It's Wednesday... WORD!


We went for a walk, a lovely nice walk... its been a week of coming home and going for a walk.    And one of those days was not an Ama day.  Ms. Ama decided that she needed her cup of water.  Then she said.. "No Aqua... Lele..(Leche)."  I said.. "ok Ama when we get back"
She said, "NO!" and jumped out of the wagon.  
We just looked at her in shock like.. really is she really doing this.

And that girl.. oh that girl took off for her walk.. back home.  She didn't even turn around.  I followed her just to see if she did.. And she didn't..  Complaining the whole way about wanting Leche.. The girls heard her on her way to greet her and felt bad about her.  And she blew them off too.. In search for her Leche..Oh.. that girl.


 This week has been a wonderful week to be outside.. but we have been attacked.  Attacked by those dang mosquitoes.  Remember how I said how much I hate ants... well add mosquitoes to that list.  I get chills when I see them and they make me want to run around like a crazy woman killing them all.  Poor Santiago was getting bitten when my dad rescued him from those blood suckers.



But he did catch one in the act.. and killed it and it was full of blood... hence the wipie with blood.
 

Also, my hero, my man... killed the mosquito that was about to attack us.  (and saved it for me to take a picture.. even though I almost died.. and almost ran around like a crazy head) My Hero!



And these girls..didn't see each other for a while like 4 days.. You swear it was like for ever... Probably never gonna leave each others side..

 WORD!










Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Little girls growing up

  Today was a regular Sunday.  Busy cleaning, folding, washing etc.  I noticed that my dear Lala went in her room and closed her door and turned her radio on.  Now normally its not a big deal because she usually goes in and changes and then comes out. But today she was hanging out in her room.  It was a shock to me because I didn't want my little girl to grow up so fast.  Grow up fast?  How so? I know I overreact... And all these crazy thoughts were going in my head when her door was closed.  I thought.. She is writing in her diary about how much she is mad at us... She sneaked the phone in her room to call someone with the door closed.  She is in there combing her hair and changing her outfit 10 times... She is writing in a notebook I Heart..someone... Or maybe she is trying to sneak out.. But the worst one was she was trying to avoid us and stay away from the whole crew.  Which I thought all were totally possible.  I guess my biggest fear was that she was turning from Tween to teen...  And I didn't like it.  So I told Javi.. that her door was closed... and we knocked and walked in... And saw...
My sweet tween was combing her American girl dolls hair...
 
 And Ama came in to join her.  I guess my paranoid, overreacting self.. needs to accept that sooner or later... all listed above will happen. I just hope not any time soon. Cause I like it when she plays. 


 And on Saturday while getting ready for the games.. all I heard Lala say , "Well at least it wasn't permanent marker!" 
And all I screamed was, "AMA, WHAT DID YOU DO?"
And I walked in to her hiding.  So I knew something... something was done.  And she looked up.
 
and I knew... I knew.. next step to look on the wall.

And found about 4 different places were she decided to mark up again.. again..and again.. Although if you look on the bright side... We thought she was trying to write her name. :)

And little Miss Thing.. Now knows how to get out of the play pen from her naps... We knew it was almost time for her to be in a toddler bed.. but we figured she'd escape so the play pen..worked...it did work... it works no more.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

WEDNESDAY... WORD!

I've tried to do the wordless Wednesday thing.. except that I'm not much of a wordless person. I can't stop talking and writing. Its what I do. so instead of Wordless Wednesday.. It's WEDNESDAY... WORD! Its that hump day... and so excited for Friday to come :)



So I start with a little bit of what happened tonight.
I was putting the kiddos to sleep and Papos asked me...
Papos: Mama, how do skeletons have babies?
Me: Huh, what?
Papos:  How do skeletons have babies?
Me:  Well um ... how do you think they do?
Papos:  Well I know that you have babies from your belly, cause god put him there and then you push him out because I was there when Ama and Santi were born.. but skeletons are skeletons and they don't have bellies.
Me:  Yeah... your right... they were in my belly and I did push them out... hmmm why do you want to know about skeletons?
Papos: Well... Maestra was reading us a book Cinderella Skeleton and she had a lot of kids.. she had 9 kids... more than you mama... so how did she have them.. she had no belly.. just skeleton.. how did they grow?  how did they come out? how did they get there?
Me: Wow.  That skeleton Mama was sure busy with 9 kids... hmm not sure how they have them..
Papos: Man, I guess we have to check the internet tomorrow.... 


I guess I need to start searching online or come up with an explanation of how skeletons have babies...um... they have extra bones on their body that produce babies... or One of their toes or fingers falls off and its a baby... Not really sure ... how does a skeleton have babies.. hmmmm any ideas?  


and today I walked in the house... with "Hey, Soul sister" on the pandora station... Javi starting dinner... kids playing... and enjoying our Wednesday..although my tough girl wasn't feeling well today... she still had a good day.




Tuesday, March 1, 2011

CHOCOLATE

UMMM its YUMMY... Yes we like it... I hardly see a chocolate in my house because its gone that fast. My kids take after me. They love them some chocolate. My girls will go crazy for their chocolate...


Lourdes almost one.

April 2001 came and went and our baby girl was treated very well by the Easter bunny.  He/she brought her a basket full of wonderful things.  and mainly chocolate.  She was almost 1 and really didn't have any reason to have the candy..so yes I bought the basket, put it togehter and eventually ate some of the candy... what...isn't that what we are suppose to do when their young.

So anyways... Lala learned very quickly what chocolate was.  At that point she was learning to walk... but loved crawling around the family room.  I was taking care of the girls (Lala and Gloria) and also my nephews in good old San Diego.  Some how we were and are use to having a zoo at our house.  But anyhow at some certain time Lala escaped the mix.  She wasn't playing with the toys with the other kiddos... I couldn't find her...(yes I know a habit) really I "pretended" couldn't find her.. and called out her name..."Lourdes, Lourdes where are you" (she was hiding her face)  " Lourdes, Lourdes I can't find you".  All this time i knew she was hiding behind the futon couch(ps..did I mention we were college students at the time... hint: futon couch).  So I looked back to find her hiding with something... I moved the bed and found that she dragged the bag that contained the chocolate from Easter.  She had hid it in the back of the futon and would go back there to eat her candy.  She knew that sharing wasn't caring when it came to chocolate... and since that day... my Lala has been a chocolate girl.


Amali - 2yrs old
Ama is a brave little girl. She's not afraid of much.. Her older siblings wouldn't do half the things she does at her age and probably would still be scared to do it now. But this girl would be brave for just about anything.. but definitely chocolate!
Javi and I were talking today about our day.  The kids were in the lving room with us playing with cars/ toys and other things.  When Ama escaped...(ok ok I know but seriously she safe and in the house.. that girl just likes to venture).  At that moment I could hear a little faint cry...mama...mama... mama...MAMA...
So we ran to go find her. Looking in all the rooms opening closed doors. And we end up in our bedroom. Door closed. Lights off.  But she wasn't in the room. But I could still hear her crying.  So we opened the door to the closet, lights off.. and my poor baby girl ran out to give me a hug.  She went in my dark room, closed the door, went in my dark closet and closed the door.  For what????   Well that girl had a piece of chocolate that she found..somehow...(from valentines) and knew that "sharing doesn't mean caring" when it comes to chocolate and became a brave little girl... to go into a dark closet without thinking about how the heck was she going to open it back up after she locked herself in...just to have her chocolate...




MY SMART SMART GIRLS... TAKING AFTER THEIR MAMA.

:)